I am sure …. in university, everything going to be more interesting!
Hmm …. I think in my new job, this is going to be better than my last job
That girl! She is more beautiful than my ex-girlfriend. I am going to marry her!
No matter what it is, about life, love, work, and everything always looks good in the beginning. This is human being to make a plan for our next life, next problems, next happiness, and whatever. And again, everything that new in our life seems interesting than our past. Remember, that’s life! And that’s human being!. The one thing that we must to understand is ‘comitment’.
You are in university now. You think that university is more interesting because you can choose major what you wanted, for instance you choose economy. You are college-student who have many friends in same major. You can share anything with them and build your intelegence more deeper than in high school. Wow! Everything going to be more fun!. However, when you reached 3rd semester, you feel like you made mistake by ‘choosing the wrong major’. Your errands more difficult than you think before. Your friends feel like the same way like you, you and they think better give up and choose other major. No! You are not choosing the wrong major! You just need ‘comitment’. Every college-student can feel the same way like you. They are in major of literature, economy, art, nurse, and so on can feel same as you. Nothing can always be good, everything can happens unexpected.
Congratulation! You just graduated from university and seeking for new job. You feel no errands as difficult as in college. Yeah you are right! Because you are in new level. You are trying to apply an opportunity job, and you are hired. In the first month, you feel this is more better because you can make money. Day by day, your responsibilities more difficult. Manager always blame you when you make a mistake, colleagues not care as college-friends, and anything happens to you. You feel desperate, you feel useless. No! You are not like that at all. Do your ‘comitment’ to accomplish responsibilities. Again, nothing can always be good.
Hmm …. you have good education, you have good salary but you are still can not move on. You decided to find another lover for the rest of your life. You go to a restaurant and you meet someone. Wow! She is beautiful!. You talk each other with her and she gives you her contact to have other conversations. After 2 months, you feel something different in you, you love her. You are going to marry her and she accept it. Congrats! You are not single anymore!. In 3rd months of your marriage age, you have knew more deeper about her. Bad-side, good-side of her you have knew it. However there is something makes you mad, she is can not cook. You want her to cook you something but she can not. After that you are trying to compare her with your ex-girlfriend. So sad! You chose her for the rest of life but now you hurted her by comparing her with others. You need ‘comitment’. ‘No one perfect and you are not perfect’. Your comitment is needed to make up your relationship.
Everything always looks good in the beginning no matter what it is. We need our comitment to save ourselves from desperate things. Do not forget to always grateful because life is unexpected.